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Mar 21, 2026

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NIKKI Perkins is holding her months-old daughter Ava in a London shopping mall when a woman approaches and snatches the infant child away. Perkins freezes.

Clutching Ava, the woman runs off across the mall, makes a beeline for her own daughter, and proceeds to show her Ava — here is the little Australian girl we've only ever seen on a screen!

Fast forward more than 18 months and Perkins is reliving the moment.

"It was that aunty sort of vibe, where she just grabbed her," she tells BuzzFeed. "[I wondered] Did that really just happen?"

For Perkins, this incident brought home one consequence of living at least part of your life online for the consumption of an audience — not all viewers realise that even for YouTubers there are safety and privacy lines that cannot be crossed.

Nikki Perkins and her husband Jamie are happy to hug, and take photos with, their fans. But Ava is off limits.

AVA Perkins has lived her short life in the public eye. Since her conception the 2-year-old has had an Instagram following.

 So too her future sibling, whose existence was announced in September by her parents — Nikki and Jamie Perkins — on Instagram.

The announcement received more than 100,000 likes.

The Perkins share a version of their life with over 800,000 Instagram followers and 1.2 million people on YouTube.

For this Australian family, life = likes, followers, fans and a full-time job.

The visual timeline of Ava’s life is in stark contrast to her mum Nikki, who doesn’t have a single photo of herself as a baby.

Nikki was born in Khartoum in Sudan and migrated with her family, whose roots are in what is now South Sudan, to Victoria, Australia, in 1994 when she was 4-years-old.

She grew up in the suburbs of Melbourne, and there, in Moorabbin, her family’s South Sudanese values were integral to her upbringing.

Living a private, quiet life was paramount. So too was working hard, an example set by her father, who took his final veterinary science exam in Australia 10 times after missing the required mark by 0.5% or 1% each time.

Nikki’s parents encouraged her to excel in school, perhaps study medicine or law, and focus on building a “stable” career.

Instead Nikki became a YouTuber.

Push back from her family over her new career was inevitable. When she started vlogging they avoided the camera.

“My Dad was on the train one day and some subscribers came up to him and were like, ‘Oh my gosh, you’re Nikki’s dad!’, and he was horrified that people recognised him from our videos,” Nikki said. “It’s hilarious.”

And when she first brought Jamie, now her husband, home to meet members of her family, they were initially shocked that he was white and not South Sudanese.

It’s not that Nikki's disregarded the advice of her family, she's just done things a little differently, treading her own path in love and career.

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